Perseverance
TO MY FELLOW SWIMMERS:
Here is a river flowing now very fast.
It is so great and swift that there are those
who will be afraid, who will try
to hold on to the shore.
They are being torn apart and
will suffer greatly.
I’m making my shoulders strong
for the young to stand upon,
stepping lightly on the backs of those
who hold me up.
It’s a chain of life unending,
ever new and ever bending,
grateful is the heart for the chance to be alive.
Susan Osborn
Singer/songwriter
We have never been here before in terms of the global nature of our predicament. For the first time in human history (at least that we know of), we have endangered our home planet. And for the first time, we know what’s happening to just about all 7 billion of us humans, the challenges and terrors we endure and the occasional, reaffirming triumphs. Never before have humans been so aware of one another’s struggles, pain and perseverance. Never before have we known so many of the consequences of what we do—our thoughtless, violent, heroic and loving actions.
Yet we have been here before. In our long, mysterious history, humans have had to struggle with enormous upheavals, dislocations, famines and fears. We’ve had to counteract aggression, protect our loved ones and face the end of life as we’ve known it. Over and over again.
The scale is different now, but the human experience is the same. And so are our human spirits, capable of generosity or abuse, creativity or destruction, survival or extinction. As we face the challenges and struggles of this time, it might help to recall the centuries of solid shoulders we stand on.
And if you reflect on your own life experience, what else have you endured? You’re still here—how did you stay here?
How have you come through rough times before?
What from your own personal history gives you now the capacity to get through this time?
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times,
it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness,
it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity,
it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness,
it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair,
we had everything before us, we had nothing before us,
we were all going direct to Heaven,
we were all going direct the other way. In short, the period
was so far like the present period,
that some of its noisiest authorities insisted
on its being received, for good or for evil,
in the superlative degree of comparison only.
Charles Dickens
A Tale of Two Cities, 1859
Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world
all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part
of the world that is within our reach. Any small,
calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul,
to assist some portion of this poor suffering world,
will help immensely.
Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Writer
Throughout human existence, there have always been people willing to step forward to struggle valiantly in the hope that they might reverse the downward course of events. Some succeeded, some did not. As we face our own time, it’s good to remember that we’re only the most recent humans who have struggled to change things.
Getting engaged in changing things is quite straightforward. If we have an idea, or want to resolve an injustice, or stop a tragedy, we step forward to serve. Instead of being overwhelmed and withdrawing, we act.
No grand actions are required; we just need to begin speaking up about what we care about. We don’t need to spend a lot of time planning or getting senior leaders involved; we don’t have to wait for official support. We just need to get started—for whatever issue or person we care about.
When we fail, which of course we often will, we don’t have to feel discouraged. Instead, we can look into our mistakes and failures for the valuable learnings they contain. And we can be open to opportunities and help that present themselves, even when they’re different from what we thought we needed. We can follow the energy of “Yes!” rather than accepting defeat or getting stuck in a plan.
This is how the world always changes. Everyday people not waiting for someone else to fix things or come to their rescue, but simply stepping forward, working together, figuring out how to make things better.
Now it’s our turn.
The future is no more uncertain than the present.
Walt Whitman
Poet
Some people despair about the darkening direction of the world today. Others are excited by the possibilities for creativity and new ways of living they see emerging out of the darkness.
Rather than thinking one perspective is preferable to the other, let’s notice that both are somewhat dangerous. Either position, optimism or pessimism, keeps us from fully engaging with the complexity of this time. If we see only troubles, or only opportunities, in both cases we are blinded by our need for certainty, our need to know what’s going on, to figure things out so we can be useful.
Certainty is a very effective way of defending ourselves from the irresolvable nature of life. If we’re certain, we don’t have to immerse ourselves in the strange puzzling paradoxes that always characterize a time of upheaval:
-the potential for new beginnings born from the loss of treasured pasts,
-the grief of dreams dying with the exhilaration of what now might be,
-the impotence and rage of failed ideals and the power of new aspirations,
-the horrors inflicted on so many innocents that call us to greater compassion.
The challenge is to refuse to categorize ourselves. We don’t have to take sides or define ourselves as either optimists or pessimists. Much better to dwell in uncertainty, hold the paradoxes, live in the complexities and contradictions without needing them to resolve.
This is what uncertainty feels like and it’s a very healthy place to dwell.
Humans have a responsibility to their own time,
not as if they could seem to stand outside it
and donate various spiritual and material benefit
sto it from a position of compassionate distance.
Humans have a responsibility to find themselves
where they are, in their own proper time and place,
in the history to which they belong and
to which they must inevitably contribute
either their response or their evasions,
either truth and act,
or mere slogan and gesture.
Thomas Merton
Catholic monk, writer, activist
How did I get so lucky
to have my heart awakened
to others and their suffering?
Pema Chödrön
Buddist teacher
It is strange but familiar to hear people who are now wellknown activists and respected workers for noble causes describe themselves as “accidental activists.”
They tell how a compulsion entered them, a clarity that they had to do this work. They say: “I couldn’t not do it” or “If I didn’t do something, I felt I would go crazy” or “Before I even realized what I was doing, I was doing it.”
In every case, they saw an injustice or tragedy or possibility when others weren’t aware of a thing. They heard a thundering call that nobody else noticed.
Why this happens is a puzzlement, but it seems that issues choose us. They summon us to pay attention while others stay oblivious. They prompt us to act while others stay asleep. They offer us dreams of bold new futures that others will never see.
We are both blessed and cursed when history chooses us.
But once chosen, we can’t not do it.
I was grounded in that moral fiber of
wanting to do the right thing. I was so
sure that this was the right thing because
it was so obvious and even those who
were persecuting me knew, and I knew
they knew...I was doing the right thing.
But they didn’t want me to do it
because it was inconveniencing them,
and I knew that.
Wangari Maathai
Noble Peace Laureate 2004
There is a vitality, a life force, a quickening
that is translated through you into action,
and because there is only one of you in all time,
this expression is unique. And if you block it,
it will never exist through any other
medium and it will be lost...
Martha Graham
Dancer/choreographer
We often choose a name that seems accurate for us, but that isn’t big enough to contain our entire life. Often such names describe who or where we’ve been, but not where we’re going. Names such as: “cancer survivor,” “victim of war,” “displaced person,” “child of a dysfunctional family.”
What is a name that calls you into your future life?
What is a name that can sustain you for the challenges you will inevitably face? A name that supports you to encounter life’s difficulties, not as a victim, but as one who grows stronger and wiser?
What is a name that calls you to be fearless?”
The term “spiritual warrior” is one such name. This is not a traditional warrior, but one of a very different type. Spiritual warriors are “those who are brave.” Most importantly, spiritual warriors never use aggression or violence to accomplish their work.
The skills that give them power are compassion and insight. It takes years of practice and discipline to cultivate these. And a strong commitment that these are the skills most needed.
Those who devote the time and exert the discipline to acquire these skills trust themselves to be of service to this troubled time.
It becomes a dark time when
we lose faith in each other and thus lack courage.
Chögyam Trungpa
Buddist teacher
Bravery is a choice. It is a decision to enter into the fray no matter how illogical and crazy things are. Even as our friends, family and common sense recommend that we stay away.
In our life, we are surrounded by people, events, circumstances that offer continuous proof of how bad things are, including bad people who don’t seem worth struggling for.
We did not plan to live in such a crazed world. Very few of us have been prepared by life circumstances to deal with the levels of fear, aggression and insanity we now encounter daily
When we were being trained to think, to plan, to lead, the world was portrayed as rational, predictable, logical.
But now? Ever present insanity, illogic, injustice, illusion.
This is just the way it is and will continue to be.
We can’t restore sanity to the world, but we can still remain sane and available.
We can still aspire to be of service wherever need summons us.
We can still focus our energy on working for good people and good causes.
It is never too late to be brave.
There is only the fight to recover what has been lost
And found and lost again and again: and now, under conditions
That seem unpropitious. But perhaps neither gain nor loss.
For us, there is only the trying. The rest is not our business.
T. S. Eliot
Poet
